Searching for a house to buy is
nothing like I thought it would be- and worlds different than what HGTV makes it seem like. I've never been so stressed out in my life! I wanted to start looking for a house last February and had all the meetings set up , but I got cold feet because I wanted to save more money for a down payment. It wasn't necessarily a terrible choice because I am certainly in better financial standing than I was a year ago, but I am kicking myself now for not going forward last year when I had the chance.
I wouldn't go as far to say that the search is going horribly- but it's not going great. The good thing is that we are seeing a lot of houses that we like, but the bad thing is that a lot of other people like the houses we like too. Every one and their mom want to live in the neighborhoods that we're looking for- which is frustrating.
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how cool are these floors? major design inspo from one of the houses we saw. |
The first day we went out, we saw 6 houses that ranged from our highest price limit to our lowest. It was kind of shocking to see the range in quality of the houses as the prices decreased. Of course, we loved the first house we saw, which so happened to be at the top of our price range. Nate & I started to talk about what we could offer to the owners, and that was sure a learning process for us. We waited to see this house three days after it came onto the market- that was our first mistake. We then notified our agent that we wanted to draw up an offer, but that we wanted to take the night to sleep on it and make sure it was the best decision for us- our second mistake. By the time we were ready to sign off on the offer, they had already accepted another offer.
We saw a couple of houses after that, but we didn't see another that we liked for another week or two. The next one we saw was a familiar house- one that I had seen on my daily Zillow hunt before we even got preapproved and talked to a realtor. The house had a prior accepted offer from before we started looking that ended up falling through because of financing- it felt kismet to us, that the house was meant to be ours. It was such a cute little cottagey house with adorable curb appeal, and it met a lot of our criteria. After taking a tour, we decided to make an offer but were sadly beaten by another couple who offered A LOT more money, according to our agent. It was probably for the best, I started to get cold feet about this little house and wonder if it was too small for us. Right now it's just Nate and I (no babies yet), but we want a house that we can grow into rather than have to up and move in 3 to 5 years.
The next house we saw has been our favorite to date.We loved it before we even walked through it. Granted, it needed A LOT of work to make that house into a home with the decrepit kitchen and peeling paint over ancient wallpaper... but it was a house we could see ourselves really making our own. Nate and I toured the place with our realtor the day the house came on the market and when we arrived, there were mobs of people there.
MOBS. And that was probably around 6:30pm, so god only knows how many more people had already been there. We were pretty competitive with our offer and went over asking price, but there were 17 competing offers. We ended up losing this house, which has caused me the most heartbreak thus far. I feel slightly guilty, but I keep hoping that something bad will happen to the people who had their offer accepted. Isn't that terrible??
Anyway, we just found out about a fourth house we made an offer on just yesterday (yes- you read that correctly.
Fourth. House.), and we were outbid on that one too. So, we're trudging along, and hoping that by some miracle, we'll catch a break sooner rather than later.
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we're staying sane by making nate try out all the tubs, obvi |
It's really, really hard not to give up hope and wallow at home everyday, but we know the right house for us is out there-- just maybe not right now. That's where we're at.
The funny thing is- with each house that you fall in love with, you start to wonder to yourself, "What did I see in that last house?" We are just trying to stay positive, and hope we find another stunner that we have to have.